Interview on Counseling and Psychotherapy
by Richard Harvey on 01/13/17
Richard Harvey answers
questions about therapy and counseling.
Do people today need therapy more
than ever?
Well, I would never
presume that people “need” therapy. I would say people benefit from it. I would
encourage people to try it and I would hope that in the future therapy,
probably under a different name and with a different, new rationale, would be
the norm. But if you mean that the world seems full of emotional, behavioral
difficulties, issues around unfulfillment, unhappiness, dissatisfaction,
frustration and anger, I would have to agree with you, it does look as is
therapy is more than ever relevant today.
But today a lot of people are in
therapy or counseling of one type or another and it doesn’t seem to have
changed the world for the better, does it?
Over the years, in my
practice I have noticed how people achieve insights and understanding, have
breakthroughs and therapeutic successes, which used to take much longer when I
was doing my own personal therapy. This gives me hope in an accelerative evolutionary
impulse that is moving us forward faster and more powerfully than before. For
example, I have had great success in turning around deeply negative states,
like chronic depression, suicidal tendencies and lack of self-esteem, or deeply
held behavior such as personal disempowerment, domestic abuse and chronic
manipulation.
When therapy achieves
successes like these, the world does change for the people directly involved,
and it also changes for the people who are involved with them—their spouses, their
families and their circle of friends. Therapy in a quiet way is having
far-reaching positive influence on the world when you consider this. For every
one person who chooses to follow their inner process with a therapist, the
potential is that dozens, scores, even hundreds of people will be affected
positively by their efforts in all sorts of ways.
Change always takes
longer than we want it to. But I believe it is coming about in the bigger
picture and I know it is for individuals I work with. As more people liberate
themselves and choose to live consciously the community—tlocal, national,
international, global—twill change. This is my conviction.
Therapy’s critics often censure
the growth movement and the New Age for being solely concerned with oneself and
the inner world and ignoring politics, ecology and the present world crisis.
What would you say in answer to those criticisms and how can therapy help the
world?
As the new therapies
that were introduced to us by the growth movement in the 1970s have developed,
they have parted company with outer concerns, at least to some degree. In the
beginning, Gestalt, Bioenergetics, transpersonal psychology et al were
seamlessly connected to outward concerns. Red therapy, the women’s movement,
the lesser publicized men’s movement were all influenced by humanistic
psychology and enlightened therapeutic methods.
Through the eighties,
which was a very materialistic time, accreditation and formalization became
paramount as the new therapies attempted to become recognized and legitimated,
which was a mixed bag. Some of the cutting edge of therapy was blunted with the
emphasis on accountability and transparency, because therapists took fewer
risks.
Therapy inevitably
became more narrow and specialized and focused on what it could be seen to be
competent about, which were inner concerns. So, the marriage of inner and outer
was somewhat forsaken.
Today, it may well be
true that the personal growth industry caters to the desire for individual
fulfillment, but the conviction of many, including myself, is that personal
clarity, wisdom and maturity are synonymous with outward change. In other
words, the world requires nothing less than a psycho-spiritual revolution to
enable humanity to reach a truly moral, compassionate stance.
Inner work, therapy,
meditation, whatever we call it or whatever method is adopted, is the hope for
the future of the world, because people living according to the restraints of
their prejudice out of a narrow, limited view of existence can never question
the status quo or challenge the entrenched ways of power and fear while they
are subject to those negative forces in their inner life.
We can parallel the
constraints of human relationships with the relationship we have to our world
and one another. In interpersonal relationships we can only ever love another
as much as we can love ourselves and similarly we treat the world in the same
way as we treat ourselves, which is not very well! So change that and
everything changes.
Finally, therapy is sometimes
called the “talking cure”, which seems cerebral and analytical. What is the
place of the body, our physicality, in therapy?
Our bodies are the
gross manifestations of our thoughts, feelings, emotions, intuitions and so
on—the sum total of the inner world in manifest form. So the body is psyche and
this is very fortunate because it gives us a direct way of working with the
invisible inner world. Therapy may well be a lot of talk sometimes, although it
isn’t always. But even when it is, we are paying attention to the body.
Breathing, facial expressions, body language and physical posture all give us
clues, answers, reactions and responses to what’s being spoken about.
“Body work”, which was
a mainstay of the Human Potential Movement when a whole new approach to therapy
emerged, is not necessarily making physical contact with the body or even
accessing feelings or emotions through the physical body: it can be much more
subtle. Noticing, being sensitive and aware we can discover many things that
are hidden from us in “normal” conscious life.
BLOG entry #78
This article by Richard Harvey was originally published at http://www.therapyandspirituality.com/articles/ and it is part of an ongoing retrospective series of blogs. ‘Interview on Counseling and Psychotherapy’ was first published in 2010.