Natural Health: Richard Harvey talks to Paul Blake
by Richard Harvey on 11/11/16
Last month in this
column Exeter psychotherapist Richard Harvey wrote an article on therapy and
politics. I liked the article and considered the issues that were raised so
important that I decided to do a follow-up interview with Richard, so that we
could explore some of these matters in more depth. What follows is an edited
extract from a much longer discussion.
Paul: What do your ideas about therapy and
politics actually mean in practice? If a National Front member came to you,
would you challenge his politics?
Richard: That’s a
strange question—it’s never happened to me or any other therapist I know! But
I’d treat politics just like anything else. I’d try to ask the kind of
questions that would promote greater awareness. I certainly don’t ignore the
political dimension in therapy. On the other hand it’s not my job to try to
change people’s ideas by arguing with them.
P: Do you think that the work you do—in groups
for example—can contribute to social problems?
R: You can’t quantify
success or failure in the inner realms, but I am sure that we should be doing
this kind of work anyway. Any place where we can look at how we relate to other
people is good. You ask me about the relationship between psychotherapy and the
world outside. Well, I’ve just come back from a five-day meditation retreat and
when I left I heard about the events in the Gulf for the first time. Now, you
can look at this in Jungian terms; the relations between the great powers have
improved, but the shadow has to emerge somewhere else. What we can all do is
look at the part of ourselves that is in the shadows.
P: I’m interested in the question of the
legitimate power of the therapist—a political matter if ever there was one! Let
me pose a dilemma that I know is real. A client starts crying about a recent
event and then says that is was something that happened in a past life. Do you
let them explore that, or do you insist that they stay in the present life?
R: In general I would
follow the client. But if it was someone I knew well and I was aware that they
always cut off into past lives when anything painful came up, I would point
that out and give them the opportunity to look at what they were avoiding. But
I’d have to be pretty confident about my relationship with them to do that.
P: What are your main interests at the moment?
R: My pet subject at
the moment is male energy. I can quite understand why there’s a tendency to
negate this—to put it crudely, we’ve had several thousand years of patriarchy
and we’ve ballsed it up—but male energy needn’t be destructive. It’s likely to
become so if it’s repressed in fact. We need to own it and affirm it.
P: Is male energy just another name for
aggression?
R: No. Aggression is
an expression of energy, male energy included, but that’s by no means the whole
story. I sometimes think of it as like the sea, which can be destructive. But
it is so much else as well. It’s a question of the use of energy—how we use
it—and of being in touch with it, not repressing and perverting it.
P: There seems to be some kind of general
crisis of sexual relations going on at the moment.
R: Yes, It’s got many
aspects. For example, I think there are a great number of men who are out of
touch with their male energy and turning their wives into mothers. And many
women are ready to carry out the mothering role. Again I can see how this kind of
thing has happened and I think that facing up to some of these issues might
help.
P: I never thought that the way men reacted to
the Women’s Movement, with total self-contempt, was very helpful—to them or to
the women.
R: But that was my
first reaction! I suppose I was quite ignorant about male oppression until I
opened up to Mary Daly, Andrea Dworkin and some of the other feminist writers.
Then I took it all on board at once and the result was I felt a huge amount of
guilt.
P: Is male energy the centre of your
therapeutic work at the moment?
R: Like most
therapists I find that the majority of people who come to me are women! I would
definitely like to work on these issues with more men.
P: Thank you for speaking with us Richard.
R: It has been my
pleasure. Thank you.
BLOG entry #69
This article by Richard Harvey was originally published at http://www.therapyandspirituality.com/articles/ and it is part of an ongoing retrospective series of blogs. ‘Natural Health: Richard Harvey talks to Paul Blake’ was first published in 1990.