Why Therapy? Four Good Reasons for Seeing a Counselor or Therapist
by Richard Harvey on 08/05/17
Why do people go to a
therapist or counselor? Here are the four levels of therapy and counseling that
will benefit or add to your life fruitfully and in some cases in ways that you
could only guess at.
The first level is
symptomatic or problem-based counseling. If you have a specific issue, like
experiencing disturbing nightmares, recurring eczema or skin complaints,
irritation, negativity or relationship issues, counseling -- usually short-term
-- can be of great benefit. The aim is obvious and clear: to deal with the
presenting issue, not dig too deeply and find a solution, a way through, a way
to overcome the problem. Usually anything from 6 to 10 sessions should be
enough and with an effective practitioner the job should be done.
Second is therapy that
digs a little deeper than the first level of purely symptomatic counseling. So
looking for the underlying causes of presenting problems is almost certainly
involved. For example, a man in midlife suffering a crisis of confidence finds
that his relationship with his domineering father is the underlying cause of
his present-day concerns, which affect his functioning adversely in the work
place. Or, in another example, a woman in her late-thirties who finds that she
is attracted to younger men rediscovers her unlived adolescence which she
forfeited for early security, marriage and motherhood when she left home at 19
to marry a man who was materially secure. But while he offered her financial and
material security he was unable to meet her emotionally and intimately in the
relationship. In both these examples a deeper cause or association is the key
to resolving the issue.
Third is what has
become known as classic psychotherapy, depth psychotherapy or major
psychotherapy (so many names!). In this approach to inner work the client (or
patient if it is analysis) enters into a long-term commitment with a competent
practitioner whose training and ability enables him to guide competently
through the inner terrain to the very source of the client's psyche. Deep
existential issues may arise such as: Who am I? What if my purpose? How did I
come to be? And for the spiritual or religiously inclined, the source of being,
or an experience of the numinous dimension of life.
Finally, the fourth
level of psychotherapy and counseling is transpersonal or psycho-spiritual.
This may include the previous three levels, particularly depth psychotherapy,
but it goes beyond personality, character and associated issues into the
spiritual, transcendent and divine realms of human experience and reality.
Arguably the cutting-edge of inward discovery this approach is considered by
many people (including myself) to be vital today since it is directly related
to ecology, political strife and injustice, bigotry, religious intolerance and
ignorance. Not only is it the intention of psycho-spiritual therapy to awaken
the client-seeker individually, but it is also to awaken collective humanity.
BLOG entry #107
This article by Richard Harvey was originally published at http://www.therapyandspirituality.com/articles/ and it is part of an ongoing retrospective series of blogs. ‘Why Therapy? Four Good Reasons for Seeing a Counselor or Therapist’ was first published in 2011.